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The Alchemy of We

Mastering your Relating Operating System 

for a fulfilling and epic life!


What’s Wrong with Relationships Today?

We are living in a world of increased disconnection and isolation, where making sense of how another person is understanding the world is becoming increasingly more difficult to do. Feeling lonely, unworthy, jealous, misunderstood or unappreciated in relationships is all too common. 

So, what’s the solution? Getting back to the basics… Most of us are missing the fundamental building blocks for healthy adult development. Parents, family, friends, public education, and most of mainstream society likely never taught you how to create healthy relationships, and the result is some bad break-ups, hurt feelings, and jaded out looks on love. 

Is this the outcome that you want? No, it’s not… That’s why you’re here. You’re seeking another way. A better way. You’d like a way to turn the lead of your relationship that’s dragging you down, into gold, that lifts your spirits and has you dreaming about the future abundant with possibilities.  

Is it hard to get started? It’s simple actually. We always want to start simple and then we add complexity over time. In time things may become challenging, but usually  that means you’re receiving greater rewards. 

Where to start? You’ve already taken a first, crucial step… You’re here now, and that shows your willingness to engage in the journey. Take it one step at a time. 


What does it mean to be in a healthy relationship?

Isn’t it  obvious? I’m a human being. Being in a relationship just means finding the person I best get along with and making a commitment to be together. Right? 

Yes, that’s right on an overly simplistic level. The truth is, relationships are never simple. Why, because we are complex human beings with radically unique and evolving life experiences that come with a lot of baggage, which sometimes makes it difficult to relate to each other, especially when we are experiencing challenging circumstances.

What makes the biggest difference in a healthy relationship vs a toxic relationship?

Understanding your basic Relating Operating System. How to feel and express our emotions, authentically and effectively. How to strengthen our emotional resilience for a more rich, thriving and harmonious life of connection. How to navigate conflict as a source of deepening intimacy, personal growth and increased creativity.

Click to start learning more and embark on your journey together.

from information to application

Learning about what’s possible in creating deeply fulfilling relationships is only part of the journey; applying the learnings to your life is where the magic happens. This is where the the lead turns into gold. Lasting benefits lie in your ability and willingness to take education and put it into action.  

As with all areas of mastery, integration of new skillsets, tools, habits and ultimately cultivating new ways of being, take dedication to active practice. We provide the experiential pathway for you to practice what you’ve learned in a “gamified” environment , so you can make mistakes before it matters, and have fun along the way. 

Are you ready to play? 

The core of any building is build on a solid foundation. The foundation of The Alchemy of We is built on our core values. What are  yours? 

find your flow, together

It’s time for you to lead your best life. 

It’s time to connect authentically.

It’s time to up-level. 

Are you ready?